如果你發現你沒有被邀請一個會議結果會影響你與你的團第的重要會議,怎麼辦?
與其氣急敗壞的憤怒,不如採取行動,避免再次發生這樣的事情。
你可以先詢問一名有參加這個會議的同事,了解在會議中討論了什麼,會議結論是什麼?然後去和會議主持人談談。不需要表現你受到傷害的情緒,與其說:“為何我沒有被邀請參加這場會議?我應該在那裡。”,不如說:“我沒有參加這場會議,在和小王做了了解后,我想以後如果要做類似的討論的話,我應該可以做出一些貢獻。”解釋你的角色會如何幫助會議討論。
What if you weren't invited to an important meeting?
What
if you find that you have not been invited to a meeting that will affect your
important meeting with your group?
With
the desperate anger, it’s better to take action to
avoid such things happen again.
You
can ask a colleague to attend this meeting, to understand what were discussed and concluded at the meeting? And then go to talk with person who hosted the meeting. Don’t talk you hurt feelings, and say: "Why
I was not invited to attend the meeting? I should be there, but say well." Rather said: "I did not attend the
meeting, made in understanding with Wang, I think if you
want to do a similar discussion of words, I should be able to make some
contribution." Explain how your character will help the meeting.
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