在現代企業中,分佈著不同年齡層的各級主管。年齡大的主管通常有較好的洞察力,能夠給出深入的具體意見,但是他們可能比較忌憚如年輕主管一般的敢冒險衝刺,而常會想要提供意見給年輕人,但是年輕人則討厭年長者一副老氣橫秋的教訓口氣。
以後,請用下列方式來提供你的指導意見給年輕主管:
- 先弄清楚自己的動機。你真的想幫年輕人的忙嗎?還是,你只是在找機會挑毛病?除非你用意良善,否則請閉上尊口。
- 以自己的經驗來表述。與其一一點出這年輕人應該改進的內容,不如分享你過去的經驗與教訓。試著這樣說:“當我開始擔任主管時,真是一團糟。”然後說出你的教訓與心得。這樣可以讓人家聽起來比較不會是針鋒相對的在挑他的毛病。
How to give advice to young manager?
In modern companies,
managers are across different ages.
The older managers
usually have better insight, can give specific in-depth views.
But, they may fear
young manager
generally will
venture to sprint, and often would like
to provide advice to the young people. But,
young people dislike a pair of older people at the tone of lessons.
Later, please
provide your guidance to the young supervisor in the following way:
- Find out what your motives are. Do you really want to help young people? Or are you just looking for trouble? Unless you're good, close your mouth.
- On your own experience to express. And one point out that young people should improve the content, rather than sharing your past experience and lessons. Try to say: "When I started to charge, is really a mess." Then, say your lesson and experience. This can make people feel not sound to pin-point to his fault.
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