何時可以不理會別人的回饋？

聽取他人的回饋可以讓我們學習成長。但是要記住並非所有的回饋都是有價值的。 對於說不清楚的回饋，我們可以置之不理。

許多人都習慣分享給你一些無意義的回饋，例如：“我不認為這和以前有所不同。”或是，“有些不對勁了。”除非他們能夠指涉清楚究竟發生了什麼事情，你沒有必要自己去弄清楚。另外，如果只有一個人說了某事，一般你也可以暫時不要放在心上。

我們很容易會受他人的批評所影響，無論這樣的批評多麼微不足道。有些時候，人們發出來的意見，不見得就是對你而發，有些可能是某些人的偏見。

所以，當你感受到某人可能對你有微詞的意思，最好再找他人查證一下。

When can we ignore others' feedback?

Listening to others' feedback can help us learn and grow. But remember that not all feedback is valuable. I can ignore the feedback that is unclear.

Many people are used to sharing meaningless feedback, such as: "I don't think it's different from before." Or, "something is wrong." Unless they can be clear about what is going on, you don't have to find out for yourself. In addition, if only one person says something, you may not mind it for the time being.

We can easily be influenced by others' criticism, no matter how small the criticism is. Sometimes the opinions people send out are not necessarily against you, some may be prejudices of some people.

So, when you feel that someone may have a slight meaning to you, you'd better find someone else to check it.